Dads and Surrogacy
Roland Danvers Selby
Aug 2026 · Fastchapters
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When a surrogate is carrying your child, you are not a bystander. You are the one holding the plan, the paperwork, the phone, and the hope—often while everyone else focuses on the pregnancy. This book is written for the father waiting on the other side of the glass: the intended parent who wants to show up fully prepared, respectful, and useful without stepping on your surrogate's autonomy or the medical team's protocols. It takes you from matching and legal groundwork through the long months of scans and silence, and into the hospital handover, the parent-order process, and the first exhausting, glorious days at home. You will find exact questions to ask lawyers, midwives, and your surrogate; checklists for hospital bags, documents, and leave; scripts for difficult conversations; and honest guidance for the emotional crash, the anxiety, the jealousy, and the grief that can surface when a plan changes. This is practical education, not legal or medical advice—your own professionals remain the final word. No vague encouragement. Just a clear path. Part of The New Father Library.
When a surrogate is carrying your child, you are not a bystander. You are the one holding the plan, the paperwork, the phone, and the hope—often while everyone else focuses on the pregnancy. This book is written for the father waiting on the other side of the glass: the intended parent who wants ...
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Roland Danvers Selby writes for The New Father Library.
Roland Danvers Selby writes for The New Father Library.
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