Melissa Ayers is a parenting educator, family coach, and writer specializing in digital wellness and child development. With over fifteen years of experience working with families, she has helped thousands of parents move from constant screen battles to calm, connected homes.
Melissa holds a master's degree in developmental psychology from the University of Washington and is a certified parent educator through the Parent Encouragement Program (PEP). Her work has been featured in *The Washington Post*, *Motherly*, and *Parenting Today*, and she is a regular contributor to the Screen Time Action Network's parent education initiatives. She also serves on the advisory board of the Children's Screen Time Action Network at Fairplay.
Her approach is grounded in developmental science, attachment theory, and a deep respect for the real challenges parents face. Rather than offering rigid rules or guilt-inducing prescriptions, Melissa focuses on practical, relationship-centered strategies that work for real families with varying schedules, budgets, and values.
Melissa lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and two children—one of whom would happily spend all day on Minecraft if allowed. When she's not writing or coaching, she can be found hiking in the Columbia River Gorge, reading middle-grade fiction, or losing a game of chess to her eleven-year-old.
She believes that the goal of parenting isn't to raise perfect digital citizens—it's to raise connected, resilient humans who happen to live in a digital world.