Charles Haddon Spurgeon thundered from the pulpit with unmatched authority, drew thousands to his congregation, and shaped the Baptist tradition for generations. He also drank. He smoked. He struggled with depression that nearly consumed him. And for decades, he could not—or would not—call it what it was.
Born from a 2014 seminary dissertation co-written with a cousin whose own addiction would later take his life, this expanded work brings Spurgeon’s story into full relief. Drawing on twelve years of additional clinical practice, deep study in Jungian depth psychology, and the conceptual vocabulary of quantum mechanics, Tiffany Solter, PhD, reveals that Spurgeon’s arc—the Shadow, the Persona, the slow and costly collapse of denial—is not the story of an exceptional man. It is the universal grammar of human transformation.
What does Jung’s concept of the Shadow have to do with addiction? What does quantum superposition have to do with recovery? More than you might expect. Solter shows how the same dynamics—hidden complexity, the collapse of false certainty, the necessity of witness—appear independently in Victorian Baptist theology, twentieth-century depth psychology, and modern physics because they describe the same underlying reality.
For addiction counselors, pastoral leaders, therapists, and anyone who has ever been simultaneously more and less than they appeared, this book is a rare thing: a rigorous academic work that insists on being personal, and a deeply personal work that does not flinch from intellectual demand.
Spurgeon never fully overcame his nicotine addiction. He preached against the bondage he was still living in. He was, until the end, a man in the middle of a struggle he had not resolved—and one of the most powerful pastoral voices of his century. That is not a scandal. Solter argues that it is the point.
You do not have to be finished to be useful. You do not have to be resolved to be trustworthy. You do not have to have arrived at a state that makes a good story before your experience qualifies as wisdom.
That grace is already here. This book will show you where to look.
About the Author
Tiffany Solter, PhD is a mental health professional, educator, and advocate with more than 25 years of experience in behavioral health and addiction counseling. She holds a doctorate, an M.A. in Counseling Psychology, an M.A. in Life Coaching, and a B.A. in Interdisciplinary Arts and Sciences. She is ordained and brings a whole-person perspective to her work. She is the founder of Solter Adventures and the author of an expanding body of work at the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and human transformation.
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Tiffany Solter, PhD is a mental health professional, educator, advocate, and lifelong seeker of magic whose writing explores the boundaries between life, death, justice, and the profound connections that define us. Born into a family of mountain people spanning Wyoming and Colorado, she grew up shaped, largely, by two grandmothers who taught her, one through train journeys across the West, the other chasing shooting stars across the plains, that anything is possible.
A survivor of a near-death experience in 1996, Solter spent decades integrating what she encountered in that "warm place where light is everything" into a life of healing work, academic achievement, and fierce advocacy. She holds a doctorate with a dissertation on grace and recovery, and has worked alongside peer counselors, nurses, and mental health teams she considers among the most transformative teachers of her life.
Her advocacy voice is unflinching and deeply personal. In "Be a Man": The Violence Society Ignores, Solter turns her clinical expertise and lived experience toward a crisis our culture has long refused to see: domestic violence against men. Drawing on research, survivor accounts, and her own family history, she challenges the archetypal and institutional blind spots that leave male victims invisible, unbelieved, and without adequate resources. The book is equal parts gripping fiction, Jungian psychological analysis, and practical call to action. It is complete with resource guides for survivors, supporters, military families, and children. It is the work of someone who has sat in clinical rooms with these men, loved them as family, and refused to stay silent.
She lives in what she calls Camelot, a home she and her husband Jeff manifested in childhood whispers, surrounded by family, familiars, motorcycles, and what she simply calls the magic.
Between Worlds is her memoir. "Be a Man" is her battle cry.