Umdlavuza Onethemba

Ukuxilongwa komdlavuza kungashintsha impilo ngemizuzwana. Kodwa ithemba lingaguqula umzuzwana ngamunye ube yithuba elisha lokulwa.

Ukuthola ukuxilongwa komdlavuza kufana nokubona umhlaba ume okwesikhashana. Ukwesaba kuthatha inhliziyo, kuvela imibuzo eminingi, futhi ikusasa libonakala lingaqinisekile. Iziguli nemindeni ziqala uhambo olugcwele izinselele, izinyembezi, izinqumo ezinzima, kanye nezikhathi lapho ukholo lubonakala luwukuphela kwamandla akwazi ukusekela ithemba.

Yilo kanye leli qiniso elaguqula kakhulu impilo yombhali.

Kule ncwadi ethinta inhliziyo nephefumulelayo, u-Adriano Leonel wabelana ngolwazi olucacile nolufinyelelekayo mayelana nezinhlobo eziyinhloko zomdlavuza, izindlela zokuxilonga, ukwelashwa kwesimanje, ukudla okunempilo, ukululama, ikhwalithi yokuphila, kanye nokunakekelwa kuzo zonke izigaba zesifo.

Isahluko ngasinye sibhalwe ngolimi olulula nolwamukelekayo, olusekelwe ezincomweni zezokwelapha ezamukelwa kabanzi, kusiza iziguli nemindeni ukuthi ziqonde kangcono lolu hambo oluyinselele.

Kodwa lo msebenzi udlula kakhulu ulwazi lwezokwelapha.

Esahlukweni esithinta inhliziyo kakhulu sencwadi, umbhali uvula inhliziyo yakhe futhi alandise, ngobuqotho obuphelele, indaba kayise. Uzolandela umthelela wokuxilongwa, izikhathi ezinzima ze-chemotherapy, isibindi lapho ubhekene nokuhlinzwa kwesisu okuphelele, izikhathi zokwesaba, ubusuku bomthandazo, izinqumo okwakumelwe zenziwe, kanye namandla omndeni ongazange uyeke ukukholwa.

Kuwubufakazi beqiniso bothando phakathi kukababa nendodana.

Indaba ekhombisa ukuthi, noma ngabe konke kubonakala kulahlekile, kusengenzeka ukuthola amandla okuqhubeka.

Kuyo yonke le ncwadi, uzothola ukuthi ukwelashwa akubandakanyi imithi nezibhedlela kuphela. Kuhlanganisa nokudla okunempilo, ukwesekwa komndeni, ukunakekelwa kwempilo yengqondo, ingokomoya, ithemba, kanye nesibindi sokubhekana nosuku ngalunye.

Lena akuyona incwadi eyenza izithembiso ezingenakwenzeka.

Yincwadi enikeza ulwazi, ukwesekwa, kanye nesikhuthazo kulabo abaphila kwesinye sezigaba ezinzima kakhulu zokuphila.

Uma uyisiguli, ilungu lomndeni, umnakekeli, uchwepheshe wezempilo, noma umane ufisa ukuqonda kangcono lesi sifo futhi ufunde ukuthi ungabasekela kanjani labo ababhekene nale mpi, uzothola ulwazi olubalulekile kanye nemiyalezo kula makhasi azohlala enhliziyweni yakho isikhathi eside ngemva kwekhasi lokugcina.

Uzohleka ngezinye izikhathi.

Uzothinteka kakhulu kwabanye.

Mhlawumbe uzokhala izinyembezi ezimbalwa.

Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, uzoqeda lokhu kufunda ukholelwa ukuthi ithemba lihlala lingenye yamandla amakhulu umuntu angaba nawo.

Ngoba ayikho impi enqotshwayo ngesikhathi esisodwa.

Ukubonisana okukodwa kunqotshwa ngesikhathi.

Iseshini yokwelashwa eyodwa ngesikhathi.

Umthandazo owodwa ngesikhathi.

Usuku ngalunye ngesikhathi.

Futhi uma nje kusekhona ukuphila, kuzohlala kunezizathu zokukholelwa ekukhanyeni okusha.

Umsebenzi ongokomzwelo, onobuntu, nophefumulelayo oduduza, ufundise, futhi uqinise bonke labo abenqaba ukuyeka.