The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap

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 The classic, myth-shattering history of the American family.

“The Way We Never Were effectively demolishes the normal, traditional nuclear family as neither normal nor traditional, and not even nuclear.” ―Nation 


Leave It to Beaver was not a documentary, a man’s home has never been his castle, the “male breadwinner marriage” is the least traditional family in history, and rape and sexual assault were far higher in the 1970s than they are today. In The Way We Never Were, acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz examines two centuries of the American family, sweeping away misconceptions about the past that cloud current debates about domestic life. The 1950s do not present a workable model of how to conduct our personal lives today, Coontz argues, and neither does any other era from our cultural past. Coontz explores how the clash between growing gender equality and rising economic inequality is reshaping family life, marriage, and male-female relationships in our modern era.

Now more relevant than ever, The Way We Never Were is a potent corrective to dangerous nostalgia for an American tradition that never really existed.  
The classic, myth-shattering history of the American family. “The Way We Never Were effectively demolishes the normal, traditional nuclear family as neither normal nor traditional, and not even nuclear.” ―Nation Leave It to Beaver was not a documentary, a man’s home has never been his castle,...

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5 reviews
Donald Chambliss Jr.
February 15, 2016
Great book full if stats and a real look and family dynamics as well as the roles of each member .
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Stephanie Coontz is director of research and public education at the Council on Contemporary Families and emeritus faculty at Evergreen State College. She is the author of several books, including Marriage: A History, A Strange Stirring, The Way We Really Are, and For Better and Worse. She lives in Olympia, Washington.
Stephanie Coontz is director of research and public education at the Council on Contemporary Families and emeritus faculty at Evergreen State College. She is the author of several books, including Marriage: A History, A Strange Stirring, The Way We Really Are, and For Better and Worse. She lives ...

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