What does Scripture actually say about marriage, submission, headship, and authority?
Few passages in the Bible have generated as much discussion as Ephesians 5:22: “Wives, submit to your own husbands.” But what happens when one verse becomes the foundation for an entire doctrine? Can a verse be completely true while being used to teach something the verse itself never establishes?
This book invites Christians to slow down, open the Scriptures, and examine what the Bible actually says about marriage.
Rather than beginning with a theological system or an inherited tradition, this study follows the larger biblical testimony that shapes Paul's teaching. From Genesis and the creation of marriage, through the teachings of Jesus, and into Ephesians 5, 1 Corinthians 7, and 1 Peter 3, these passages are considered in their context and alongside the rest of God's Word.
Along the way, important questions are examined:
What did God establish in marriage from the beginning? What does biblical submission actually mean? What does “head” mean in the context of marriage? How does Christ's headship over His church shape our understanding of Christian marriage? Does biblical headship mean authority, control, responsibility, or something else? What responsibilities do husbands and wives have toward one another? And how can Christians distinguish what Scripture explicitly teaches from what we have inferred from Scripture?
The goal is not to create another system for Christians to defend. It is to learn how to read the Bible faithfully.
This study explores marriage, biblical submission, Christian headship, mutual responsibility, authority, love, sacrifice, and the relationship between husband and wife while continually returning to the larger question: Does this conclusion actually follow from Scripture?
For Christians who have wrestled with Ephesians 5, wondered about the biblical meaning of submission and headship, or simply want to understand marriage through the whole counsel of God's Word, this book offers an invitation to slow down, examine the evidence, compare Scripture with Scripture, and allow God's Word to speak for itself.
Because the ultimate goal is not merely to settle an argument about marriage.
It is to become more faithful readers of Scripture—and more faithful followers of Jesus Christ.
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