What Mattered Most: A Memoir

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*NARRATED BY THE AUTHOR!*
*WITH COUNTRY LEGEND VINCE GILL NARRATING THE PREFEACE!*

Ty Herndon brings the power of his own voice to the special audio edition of WHAT MATTERED MOST. Along with country music superstar Vince Gill reading the Preface, Herndon paints an intimate portrait of faith, addiction, celebrity, and relationships in the inimitable voice that made him an icon of country music.

An intimate, often hilarious but always sincere memoir from country legend Ty Herndon on his struggles with addiction, mental health, his career, relationships, and being the first openly gay male country superstar.

Ty Herndon may be most known for his beautiful country songs, but behind the music Herndon's own life could be the subject of a classic country ballad. His career began as a member of the band The Tennessee River Boys—the band that would later become Diamond Rio. He found solo success after signing to Epic Records and releasing the number-one hit "What Mattered Most," launching a decades-long career as one of country music's leading legends.

But behind the fame, Herndon struggled with addiction, mental health issues, and his sexuality—the latter of which had no place in mainstream country in the 90's, 2000's and arguably through today. Facing a series of setbacks including an arrest, lawsuits and a drug relapse, all while struggling to maintain his secret, his spiral ultimately led to a suicide attempt. His subsequent successful stay in rehab led to the inspiration for his song "God or the Gun."

Now, Herndon brings that song to life telling his full story for the first time. With profound introspection, brutal honesty, occasional humor and a lot of heart, Herndon shares how he fought against his demons and ultimately chose God over the gun.

*NARRATED BY THE AUTHOR!* *WITH COUNTRY LEGEND VINCE GILL NARRATING THE PREFEACE!* Ty Herndon brings the power of his own voice to the special audio edition of WHAT MATTERED MOST. Along with country music superstar Vince Gill reading the Preface, Herndon paints an intimate portrait of faith, addi...

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Stefanie Whicker
April 1, 2026
This guy stole my heart in 1995 and hasn't ever given it back 💓 Even after reading every word I still love you Tyrone...to the moon and back! 😘🤗 All of those years and everything going on he still knew how to make a girl and her mom feel like his best friends in the world. He also gives the best hugs in the world! 🤗 You are a gift Tyrone and we love you always....this story is going to change lives and possibly save them! ❤️
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Ty Herndon is an American country music artist with multiple chart-topping hits including number one singles ""Living In a Moment,"" ""What Mattered Most,"" and ""It Must Be Love."" He made headlines in 2014 as the first mainstream male country music star to come out as gay. He lives in Nashville with his husband Alex Schwartz.

David Ritz is the author of the acclaimed novels The Man Who Brought the Dodgers Back to Brooklyn and Blue Notes Under a Green Felt Hat. He is the only four-time winner of the Gleason Book of the Year Award. He's also cowritten the memoirs of many celebrities.

Ty Herndon is an American country music artist with multiple chart-topping hits including number one singles ""Living In a Moment,"" ""What Mattered Most,"" and ""It Must Be Love."" He made headlines in 2014 as the first mainstream male country music star to come out as gay. He lives in Nashville...

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