The marriage ended. The parenting didn't.
Whatever brought you here — a divorce that went civil, a divorce that went sideways, a breakup that left you starting over — the romance is over, but the assignment from heaven hasn't changed: those kids are still yours to raise, and God is still watching how you raise them.
Here's the truth nobody says out loud at the courthouse: your children did not file for divorce. Kids don't fall apart because their parents live in two houses — they fall apart because their parents fight across those two houses. The conflict is the toxin, not the custody schedule.
Co-Parenting Made Simple gives you the complete operating system for raising great kids across two homes — from a Christian worldview where children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3) and peacemakers are called sons of God (Matthew 5:9). You'll learn the kid-first mindset shift, how to grieve without making your kids grieve with you, the number-one rule (never make your kids choose sides), communication rules for your ex (the BIFF method), the parenting plan explained in plain English, consistency across two homes, handoffs without drama, new partners and dating, holidays and birthdays, staying in the loop on school and doctors, when your ex is difficult, parallel parenting, money and child support without weaponizing it, faith and forgiveness in the hard seasons, and your one-page co-parenting playbook.
Every chapter ends with one simple action step. Scripture first, in every chapter.
General information only — not legal advice. The author is not a lawyer. Consult a licensed family law attorney in your state for custody matters.
The marriage ended. The parenting didn't. Two homes. One team.
Kimani Upshur, M.Ed. — Official Author Biography
Kimani Upshur, M.Ed., is a Christian author, educator, publisher, and founder of Upshur Unlimited LLC. He is the creator of the Made Simple Framework, a growing collection of books designed to make complex subjects understandable, practical, and accessible to everyday readers.
His extensive body of work includes Christian living, biblical education, personal development, leadership, decision-making, family relationships, technology, and science fiction.
Through his writing, Upshur seeks to encourage faith in Jesus Christ, inspire personal growth, strengthen families, and equip readers with practical knowledge rooted in biblical principles.
As an independent publisher, he is dedicated to making books, audiobooks, educational resources, and Christian digital tools accessible to readers worldwide.
Discover his books and resources at https://upshurunlimitedllc.